Cheater Palooza!

Today I will be kind of ranting, but just bear with me...

I freaking hate cheating, cheaters, and whatever other word may be associated with the act of it. I know a couple (and out of respect for them I will call them John and Sue) who has been having some problems in their relationship. They've been together I think four years now which is a long time in itself, but apparently they have quite the cheating problem in their relationship. First John cheated on Sue and she confronted him about it. He admitted to it, but lied about certain details. Sue forgave him and then they were ok. BUUUTTT then John decided to cheat on her again. Sue, obviously being upset decided she wanted to get revenge. John slept with both women he cheated with, so Sue decides she's gonna go sleep with other men. Weellll, now Sue has gotten revenge and is content because John doesn't know. Sue, however, found out those certain details John lied about and now it's just a big mess all over again.

So let me comment on this story first. I will say that I am friend's with Sue. She told me this story and at first I was a bit shocked because Sue seemed like an innocent little one who actually turned out to be some kind of sex she-devil. I was very shocked to hear of all this. I don't think it's right to get revenge on your SO (significant other) just because he/she cheated. Personally, I would leave that up to God because I know what He says in the Bible about revenge (Romans 12:19). So I wouldn't take that into my own hands. I can't really say anything for sure about what other reactions I might have if I was cheated on, but I wouldn't take revenge. I think both were wrong in certain things, but at least Sue is willing to work things out. However, I don't think John is...

Next cheater story. My favorite show, Under Employed, comes on tonight at nine. I hope at least some of you have watched it or heard about it. If you haven't, look up the first few episodes. It's a REALLY good show about what the real world holds for newly graduated college students. I absolutely love it. It isn't reality TV garb which makes it even more enjoyable. I won't say any names to ruin it for those of you who plan on checking into it, but there's a character on the show who is cheating and I despise it. I just hate cheating!! But to cheat on someone who is so good to you and doesn't give you a single reason to run around with someone else? STUPID! Ugh.

Well I guess that's my rant. Haha. Wow. That was a good bit. Cheating is something that I will not condone.

If you have any clue as to my family relations and backstory, you'll know that my family was torn about by cheating and I've seen it happen from one parent ever since... That pretty much scars you for good. I will admit that I have been guilty of it myself in the distant past, but it has only been twice and it was a loooooong time ago. As in years before my amazing current boyfriend even came into the picture. However, I hate it. I've seen and been a product of a house being torn apart by it and while I've forgiven my mother for what she did, it still left quite a scar.

Anyway, that's just a little piece of me and my opinions and past. Bleh. Well, that's it for this entry. Thanks for those of you who are reading and keeping up with the blog. I love you all. :]